If any of that sounds like you, don’t worry: You CAN train your puppy, you CAN build a really strong bond with them. Even if you feel like you have no clue what you’re doing.
You can still live happily ever after.
Puppy Survival School will show you how. We’re here to help you break through the chaos, and actually enjoy life with your puppy.
Imagine having a puppy who:
“We wanted to extend a heartfelt thanks for your help over the past months. Your videos, and your no-nonsense and humble delivery of information, were invaluable as we navigated raising our sweet but drivey and high-arousal young’un. We’re better parents for it and Olive has a clearer sense of his place in the family and household, and we all made it to the other side in one piece. So, thanks thanks thanks.”
Andrew and Mathi
We know you’re exhausted. You don’t have the time or mental energy to sit through a bunch of dog training theory. You need to know what to do, now!
We start by teaching you a simple strategy you can use to quickly get problems under control and be a lot less stressed.
When you’ve implemented the strategy and gotten out of crisis mode, we’ll teach you everything else you need to know to raise a puppy you can be proud of.
We’ll walk you through pretty much every aspect of training, socializing, and caring for a puppy. So you can spend less time Googling (or asking the weirdly judgmental folks of Reddit), and more time making progress.
Get this program when you sign up for an All-Access Pass academy membership. We have monthly and annual membership options.
This will help you quickly get problems under control. (Haven’t brought your pup home yet? Foundation will help prevent problems and establish good habits from the beginning)
Make the potty training process as simple and drama-free as possible.
Learn how to survive the crazy biting phase.
You’d think that working from home would make it easier to take care of a puppy, but turns out, it’s really tough!
How are you supposed to concentrate on work and avoid getting fired when the screaming fluffball requires constant attention?
This new mini course will teach you the process we’ve developed to get your puppy to chill out while you’re working.
It’s also helpful for anyone else who wants their puppies to quiet down and leave them alone for a while.
All about puppy body language and behavior.
All about creating a harmonious multi-pet household, so you can stop feeling guilty about inflicting a demon puppy on your older dog or cat.
The skills your puppy needs to have in order to exist peacefully in their human household.
Video tutorials for teaching your puppy cues and basic manners that will make life easier, using fun games and puppy-friendly methods. Learn how to teach your puppy the following skills at a beginner level:
You know your puppy needs to “be socialized,” but what does that even mean? And how do you do it without becoming a giant ball of stress?
A guide to the critical but often-ignored mental and emotional side of raising a puppy.
The “What The **** Was I Thinking” phase is something that many puppy parents go through. It’s the part where everything is terrible and you think you made a huge mistake by adopting this puppy.
I’ll talk about my own personal experience with this phase, and teach you how to survive it.
The courses are self-study, but you don’t have to go it alone.
You’re invited to our twice-monthly live coaching calls on Zoom where you can tell us about your situation, and we’ll give you some tailored advice.
Can’t attend the live session? No worries! Submit your questions in advance and then watch the replay.
You also get access to our forums where you can ask questions, vent about your canine conundrums, and share your wins.
In addition to the puppy-specific courses, you also get instant access to our full course and webinar library.
We cover topics like:
Raising a puppy can be thankless work. People go nuts over the flashy dog training stuff like tricks or agility, but no one seems to care when you get your puppy to FINALLY sleep through the night, or have fewer potty accidents this week than last week.
Well. WE care.
We know you work hard for this stuff, and it’s just as big an achievement as Roll Over and Play Dead, darn it!
With badges, we aim to give you a fun way to track your progress and celebrate all your wins along the way.
The most common question we get about this program is “will this work for my new adult rescue dog?”
The short answer is… mostly, but not completely.
Raising a puppy and a rescue dog are similar but different experiences. What you really need are bits and pieces of ALL our courses.
So we’ve created a new feature: the rescue dog roadmap. It’ll show you exactly which lessons to take from each course, so you can get your new dog settled in.
“Emma is my 4th dog, but my first puppy. To say I was terrified of messing her up and doing all the wrong things, is a total understatement. In my frantic Google searches I found your WTFWIT video on YouTube and knew that your method was for me. I’ve been studying diligently, and were still in the honeymoon phase, but 3 days into getting Emma and she responds to her name, sits on command, sits to say please, has made tremendous potty and crate progress, follows the leader, and is a tug champion.
From watching your videos and reading your material, I feel empowered and knowledgeable and no longer terrified. I know what I’m doing (kinda), I can spot bad advice from well meaning friends and family, and I’m confident that I will have a well behaved, well adjusted puppy.
Thank you to infinity and beyond for helping to make our family a happy one.”
Simone and Jon
“I’m writing to thank you again […] and to tell you that it has been a real pleasure spending time with you and getting to know you both (and, to a lesser extent, your dogs) over the past 2+ years.
You came into my life at one of the most challenging times I’ve experienced and I believe that the courses and the guidance, support and reassurance you gave me were, in large part, responsible for my getting through it (and Vinny too!). And for that I am deeply grateful. I also really appreciated the community I found with other academy members who were going through similar experiences – it was heartening to know I was not alone in my puppyhood trials. : )”
Kathryn, a long-time Academy member and her puppy, Vinny
“Dear Jake,
I just want to thank you so much for starting the 3 Lost Dogs Academy. My Husband found your courses and pointed them out to me when I was losing my mind. We recently adopted a 5-6 month old Blue nose pit mix and he was a touch more than I bargained for. When I thought ‘This is it? What was I thinking?’ He found your academy and it has given me a clear way forward to understand Kevin and better meet his needs.
It’s nice to finally be bonding with my boy and not be endlessly frustrated with him. So thank you again, really.”
Terianne
This project started when I adopted River, a four-month-old Belgian Malinois.
Beginning on day one, I filmed everything I did with River. House training, problem solving, socializing, playing, adventuring, etc.
A few months later, I decided that River needed a friend, so I went back to the shelter and adopted Hazel, a three-month-old lab/pit bull mix.
I filmed everything I did with her, too.
All this footage became the Puppy Survival School.
This is no fancy studio production. These videos were recorded in my messy house, with my noisy housemates, with a resident cat who liked to wander into the shot.
You’ll see these puppies learning, making progress, and growing. I’ll even point out my mistakes.
You won’t have to use your imagination to figure out how all these lessons fit into real life, you’ll get to watch them happen in real life.
I won’t lie, this stuff does take work. Raising a puppy is never exactly a breeze, no matter what. But if you follow the program, you’ll be amazed at the progress you can make.
But if you put in the work, things will get easier, you’ll be less stressed, and you and your dog will be ready for a lifetime of adventures together.
If this sounds like a good fit for you, scroll down and hit the “join now” button, and you can start making progress with your puppy today.
No commitment. Easily cancel at any time by going into your account settings. Click here to learn more about the All-Access Pass
We offer full refunds on All-Access Pass monthly and annual memberships. If you decide the Academy isn’t for you, send us an email within two months of purchase and we’ll refund 100% of your payment, no questions asked.
There’s no strict age limit. Most of our Puppy Survival School students join when their puppies are between two and five months old, but we also have folks sign up with their 6-10 month old pups, and they still get a lot out of the program.
Basically, if you’ve been nodding your head as you read this page, going “wow that sounds just like my situation,” you’re in the right place.
We get this question a lot! So we added a feature to help you adapt the puppy program to your adult rescue dog. More on that below.
But the short answer is: Possibly. While the Puppy Survival School courses are designed for puppies, it can also help an older dog with things like house training, crate training, basic obedience and manners, and getting settled into their new home.
Raising a puppy and a rescue dog are similar, but different experiences. What you really need are bits and pieces of ALL the Academy courses, not just the puppy program.
Good news – when you sign up for the All Access Pass, you get access to ALL of our courses, plus:
The Rescue Dog Roadmap. This will show you exactly which lessons to take from each course, so you can get your new dog settled in.
Puppy Survival School is not designed to help adult dogs with problems related to: fear, aggression, reactivity, resource guarding, poor socialization history, or predatory behavior toward other pets. If you’re still unsure, email me at contact@3lostdogs.com, and I’ll let you know if the program is appropriate for your dog.
Thanks for asking!
Broadly speaking, our methods fall into the force-free category. We’ve found this to be the most effective way to build a strong bond with your dog and get them to WANT to listen to you, while minimizing the chances they’ll develop aggression-related behavior problems.
Just like toddlers have meltdowns when they’re cranky and overtired, most of the really annoying (or infuriating!) things puppies do is a result of them feeling frustrated, confused, overstimulated, or having a need that isn’t being met.
So the first step in achieving harmony with your little gremlin is to think teamwork:
“I know this is hard, Sparky, but we’re gonna figure it out together!”
Then start teaching them how to ask for what they need, break down training into baby-friendly steps, and structure their routine so they get all their needs met.
We teach you how to properly use positive reinforcement (like food, play, and real-life rewards), to teach your puppy exactly what you want them to do – while avoiding common mistakes that cause positive reinforcement to fail.
We also teach you how and when to use enrichment, exercise, redirection, and management to further improve your puppy’s behavior and create good habits.
Where appropriate, we use desensitization, habituation, and counter-conditioning to help puppies build confidence and overcome fear or aggression issues. We go at the dog’s pace and do not force them into situations they aren’t ready for. (In technical terms, we don’t use “flooding”)
All together, this approach will drastically improve your puppy’s behavior. They’ll bite less and listen to you more.
If any of that sounds daunting or made your eyes glaze over, don’t worry – we have a bunch of frameworks, exercises, and games in Puppy Survival School to show you exactly how to do all this. Our methods aren’t just puppy-friendly, they’re human-friendly, too.
We do not use: Aversives like spray bottles, scary noises, collar corrections or physical punishment. Because while those methods sometimes work to stop unwanted behavior in the short term, they often create worse behavior or even aggression in the long term, and make it harder to build a strong bond.
But if you’re already using aversive methods? No worries! When you join our program, we meet you where you’re at and we can help you gradually remove the need for those corrections.
So your pup’s breed is known for being stubborn, or sensitive, or extra clingy, or extra independent, or notoriously hard to train.
Don’t worry. We got you.
We’ve had the whole range of breeds come through our training programs:
Headstrong types like malamutes and huskies. Big tough German shepherds, malinois, Dobermans, and mastiffs.
Little guys like pomeranians, Chihuahuas, shih tzu, toy poodles. Enormous guys like Newfoundlands and Bernese mountain dogs.
Intense herding breeds like border collies, Aussies, and cattle dogs. All types of hunting dogs, from scenthounds to sighthounds. Pointers, setters, spaniels, beagles, terriers, Irish wolfhounds, etc.
A million pit bulls and pit mixes. Every variety of “doodle” and you can think of. Even unusual types like Greek village dogs and one bonafide, rare Chinook.
Not to mention the whole range of personalities and temperaments:
Independent and “stubborn.” Clingy and affectionate. High energy and low energy. Fearless social butterflies and shy, fearful pups. Exuberant or sensitive.
Dogs who are obsessed with toys, and dogs who have zero interest in toys. Super food-motivated, and extremely picky eaters.
Dogs who love training, and dogs who get easily frustrated with training.
We have an overarching philosophy that works no matter the breed or personality. And we recognize that different dogs require different approaches:
A Siberian husky probably won’t be motivated by the same things as border collie. A delicate little toy poodle has different needs than a Great Pyranees. If you have a shy puppy who’s afraid of strangers, you’ll need to prioritize different things than if you have a confident pup who loves everyone they meet.
We’ve seen it all, and we’ve developed a methodology that can be adapted to fit the needs of any dog.
That’s up to you! This isn’t like a puppy class with a set schedule or end date. Work through the courses at your own pace.
There’s enough training material to guide you through at least the next three months of your puppy’s life. And then if you want, you can work on the other included courses to build on their training skills throughout their adolescence and adulthood.
The All-Access Pass is a monthly or annual membership. When you sign up, you’re covered for 30 or 365 days respectively, and then your membership will renew automatically unless you cancel.
Puppy Survival School consists of multiple self-study courses, each on a different puppy subject. When you sign up for an All-Access Pass, you’ll get immediate access to all of these courses (plus all of the other Academy courses and workshops) and you can proceed at your own pace.
The course lessons are a combination of videos and written instructions. You can go back and rewatch previous lessons at any time.
You’ll also have access to our forums, where you can post questions for us and your fellow students to answer. You’re also invited to our twice-monthly live Q&A/group coaching sessions on Zoom, where you can get tailored advice and commiserate with your fellow puppy parents.
(Don’t worry, my fellow introverts: there’s no pressure to participate on the Zoom calls! You can just sit back and listen in)
To access the courses and forums, you’ll sign in to 3LostDogsAcademy.com with the username and password that you create upon checkout. The site is accessible from any internet-enabled device, like your phone or computer.
When you join, there will be an orientation video to show you the ropes.
G’day mate! Half of the team here (Erin) is Australian, so we feel your pain. We know you’re used to Northern Hemispherians forgetting you exist and scheduling things while you’re sleeping. Rude.
First of all, no matter why you can’t attend, you can still get your questions answered on the live Q&A. Just post your question in the “Q&A Questions” forum, we’ll answer it on the call, and you can watch the recording later.
Second of all, starting in February 2025, we’ll begin holding one of the monthly Zooms at a more Aus/NZ-friendly time. Somewhere between 11am-1pm your time.
Nope. We, too, hate subscription services that make you do things like fill out a form, print it, bury it in a crossroads at midnight and then wait two weeks for them to consider your request.
To cancel, just go to “view/edit membership” in the navigation menu, and hit the cancel button. You’ll have access to the Academy for the remainder of the subscription period, and then it won’t renew.
Sure! Send an email to contact@3lostdogs.com and I will personally get back to you. – Jake
We’re Erin Buvala and Jake Buvala, a husband-and-wife dog training team. We’re all about providing non-judgy, effective, modern training information to dog owners.
Fun fact: we met because of 3 Lost Dogs. I (Jake) had been running 3LostDogs.com solo for years. Erin adopted a particularly challenging dog (seriously – ask us about the time he ate an entire couch). She emailed me to get my thoughts on the situation, and 70 emails later, we decided to get married and also work together. Totally normal, right?
We’ve spent time in the dog ownership trenches ourselves. We know what it’s like to feel fed up, exhausted, and even angry when it comes to our dogs and their “issues.” We’ve both had those moments of thinking, “maybe getting this dog was a bad idea,” and “wow I’m literally the worst dog owner on the planet. I suck at this.”
We know what it’s like, so we’re dedicated to helping other people make it out of that trench of despair, and get to the good parts of dog life.
Email: contact@3lostdogs.com